Happiness is a loose term, happiness can be, for me, as blissful contentment or the accomplishment of a deep seated drama being overcame.
I prefer bliss content, I find that happiness more often. Just constantly finding myself in the back of the room, or hiding from the world; being content with whatever is unfolding in the world around me.
i think if everyone would let me shut up for the rest of my life, only say a few words when need be, I'd be a pretty happy guy.
I find happiness in introversion, cant be happy with yourself, what do you expect anyone else to do for you? Please don't strive so damn hard to be happy, just give it up. You should try sadness fro awhile makes your 'happy days" that much better. Life deserves contrast.
If yours happy all the time, you've got more problems then manically depressed patients. Sadness is a pressured gas you need to slowly release that shit.
happiness is the best kind of lack luster emotion.
Dads
Wednesday, April 29, 2015
Living In The Moment
All the new age hippie thought teachers like to throw that phrase around like its some great epiphany. Its not.
Its crap.
You cant live in ONE moment. You live in all of them. They're not disconnected.
20 years ago, now and 20 years from now are ALL THE SAME FUCKING MOMENT.
Most people cant accept that because for them well: its not true. They've got bills due, jobs to go to, hell even the simple existence of a calender proves it.
Its possible to "live in the moment", our homosapian brains gave up that option a long time ago though. But lets imagine for a second what'd be really like to be a dog.
You don't know what time it is, the years you've spent. Your cute little puppy dog life must be so confusing not understanding linear time. But as a dog you don't get the future you just live in that exact moment.
why cant we do that more?
Its crap.
You cant live in ONE moment. You live in all of them. They're not disconnected.
20 years ago, now and 20 years from now are ALL THE SAME FUCKING MOMENT.
Most people cant accept that because for them well: its not true. They've got bills due, jobs to go to, hell even the simple existence of a calender proves it.
Its possible to "live in the moment", our homosapian brains gave up that option a long time ago though. But lets imagine for a second what'd be really like to be a dog.
You don't know what time it is, the years you've spent. Your cute little puppy dog life must be so confusing not understanding linear time. But as a dog you don't get the future you just live in that exact moment.
why cant we do that more?
Fear
Fear is the blackness each person must face, As simple as fear of the dark or public speaking or even the irrational: people too close to you in Walmart. As children I don't think we're really scared of everything like it seems to adults, just confused and lost.
"Fear can be defined as the expulsion of emotions without logic." If we face, or "understand" our fears we can conquer them. Those who are scared of heights, aren't really scared of the elevation but the sensation of falling.
But there's more to fear than Heights, Water, or even people to closet o you in walmart. Theres the overwhelming fear that keeps you awake at night. The fear of losing our home, what dire straight your family could be facing, or maybe its just you all alone. Every ones faced it.
Some like to walk through the fire of fear alone, I do. Whatever may be terrifying me shouldn't get the opportunity to scare those around me. Your friends and family will always say "we want to help because we love you" Its not like that everything
Sometimes to face your fear you go alone, to understand yourself.
Im not saying if you know everything you'll never be scared again...Im saying know why you have fear and you will defeat it.
"Fear can be defined as the expulsion of emotions without logic." If we face, or "understand" our fears we can conquer them. Those who are scared of heights, aren't really scared of the elevation but the sensation of falling.
But there's more to fear than Heights, Water, or even people to closet o you in walmart. Theres the overwhelming fear that keeps you awake at night. The fear of losing our home, what dire straight your family could be facing, or maybe its just you all alone. Every ones faced it.
Some like to walk through the fire of fear alone, I do. Whatever may be terrifying me shouldn't get the opportunity to scare those around me. Your friends and family will always say "we want to help because we love you" Its not like that everything
Sometimes to face your fear you go alone, to understand yourself.
Im not saying if you know everything you'll never be scared again...Im saying know why you have fear and you will defeat it.
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